by DavidFraser | Jun 29, 2015 | Leadership, Relationship Skills
We tend to feel uncomfortable if we don’t have complete control of the situation we are in. And yet, sometimes – often? – we need to let go and accept that if the team as whole is going to make progress, we can’t keep a tight rein on...
by DavidFraser | Apr 30, 2014 | Personal Mastery, Wisdom
Some lessons keep coming round, for me they do anyway… Getting focused has a double benefit—probably more than double actually. Dropping some tasks—disengaging from some projects or organisations—has the obvious benefit of freeing up some time. But it’s much...
by DavidFraser | Apr 9, 2014 | Leadership, Personal Mastery, Wisdom
…em, quite hard. That’s my experience anyway. Doesn’t mean it isn’t the right principle though, just that it isn’t that easy to achieve, especially if our vision isn’t very clear. I remember… The amazing effect of putting some...
by DavidFraser | Dec 23, 2013 | Leadership, Relationship Skills
If you want to be in control, you’ll need to be smart. The more you want to be in the driving seat of the relationship, the harder it’ll be for the other party to bring their thinking, their knowledge and their ideas to bear on the issue at hand. And that means… It’ll...