It’s tempting to try and reconcile things. It resolves that cognitive dissonance that so bothers us.
We prefer to eliminate tension, and so we should when we can. It’s good to reduce differences or apparent differences.
The division is too great. It’s beyond our current resources to bridge the gap. Or it’s not worth the cost. Or it’s just not possible at the moment.
Sometimes it’s better to accept that some things are beyond us for now.
Don’t try to reconcile the irreconcilable.
Better sometimes to live with the difference.